“Beta mujhay buhat ghussa hai, andar jao nahi to mn maaru ga!”, I heard a man yelling at his three-year-old, for some fault of his plumber. Now maybe this kid had something he wanted to show to his dad, or may be had the curiosity to see how things work at plumbing and the person himself ruined his ability to learn, or be at ease with the worldly things. If we observe, that is what we have been doing all the time and when the kids get mature we go complaining about their indecisiveness, anger and secrecy. Then we cannot find any reason for how it happened. Here are some graphics that may tell you why.